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 Be Classy!

My goal is to sell a limited number of dating memberships in order to subsidize my time fighting internet scams.
A paid profile will not be appropriate for everyone, and once momentum picks up, I may not have time for everyone that wants a profile.
However, men would be well served by reading the rest of this page for free.
During the Covid lockdown I tried creating profiles on some internet dating websites.
Most of the messages that I received were from scammers.
One particular time that I created a dating profile, the responses were not primarily scammers.
I was not intentionally trying to perform an experiment, but that time I had accidentally transposed what I had intended to enter in "gender X looking for gender Y" section.
I got an enormous number of responses the time I mixed up the gender checkboxes and many of them were not classy.
As a man, I lack standing to speak for women, however this one particular time I feel very comfortable doing so.
Fellow men: Even if in order to earn money a woman posed for the most explicit print or video images, when seeking an actual relationship, women do not want to hear or see vulgar language.
Make entries carefully wherever you make a profile, and be classy.
If someone on the internet alleging to be a woman is communicating with a man using vulgar language there is an overwhelming chance that that person is a man or woman intent on manipulating or outright scamming the man.