This website will have profiles of people seeking serious long-term relationships.
I lack the authority to marry any two arbitrary people, but I ask that a serious relationship be your goal if you ask to have a profile created.
My current vision is that by matching a relatively small number of people, I can subsidize my time spent making people aware of internet scams.
Superordinate Goals And Intersectionality!
Slowing down the growth of internet scams may not be my outright superordinate goal, but it is a significant goal of this website.
One bit of creative license with this section:
I am going to pretend that Playboy magazine were still the cultural icon that it was until roughly 10 years go.
If you are an adult man, there is a very significant chance that your superordinate goal is:
To come home to a woman who is dressed as if she were posing for a Playboy pictorial.
If you are an adult woman, there is a very significant chance that your superordinate goal is:
To be an actual Playboy model
and / or
To pose for your significant other as if it were for a Playboy pictorial.
While the above bullet points might suggest a very large intersection, it is not quite that simple.
A man may or may not have strong preferences as to what his ideal bride would look like.
A woman will almost certainly have very strong preferences as to a man's income and other indications of status.
If a woman lives in a culturally progressive part of the United States, when rejecting a man, she may frame the rejection as a need to focus on her career.
While a need to focus on her career could be an issue in specific cases, the reality in most cases is that if a woman is rejecting a man, it is because she believes that he has not paid enough attention to his career.
Good New And Bad News
Other than for careers with significant barriers to entry, such as medical practitioners, the job market is quite bad.
However, that means that any man with the means to provide for a household is going to be even more in demand than he would have been historically.
If you are such a man, then I would like you to hire me to find you your ideal bride.
Lean In
There can certainly be exceptions, but as I discuss in the video, to an overwhelming extent:
Men will evaluate potential romantic partners based visual appeal.
Women will evaluate potential romantic partners based on ability to provide financially.
Professionals in the fields of biology and sociology can debate to what degree the above points are dictated by nature or nurture.
On behalf of the rest of us, I would like to proclaim: "vive la différence!"
Hire me to find you a suitable bride!
What makes someone a suitable bride... and why a bride anyways?
I have 2 goals with this service:
Fund my time spent making people aware of internet scams.
Minimize the chance of compassion fatigue that would set in if I focused exclusively on internet scams.
I could work on behalf of anyone, but men are more likely to be interested in paying for an introduction service.
The population of men looking for women is so vast that an absolutely infinitesimal market share would be more than I could handle.
The Catch
To quote popularizer of science Michio Kaku, "There's always a catch."
In this case, the catch is that women are only looking for men that meet some threshold of financial resources and status.
Women receive a vast number of contacts if they create an online profile.
For a great many of us, these are not good times.
The economy is currently very difficult for people from non-elite backgrounds.
Particularly so for people who do not qualify government benefits.
In day to day life, a man might meet a woman who decides to evaluate him beyond just his financial resources.
On an internet dating websites, women receive far too much interest for them to consider a man beyond his financial resources.
Think of it as an employer evaluating its work from home policy.
If there are thousands of candidates begging to be employed and go into the office, why entertain work from home?
Location, Location, Location
It is better to have a plan and then adapt it or discard it if needed than to have no plan at all.
The three states I list below were part of the confederacy and have a low cost of living.
A black man have challenges that I, as a white man, simply cannot appreciate.
However, I would much rather have a black man who owns his own home as a client than a white man who is a renter.
Florida
I have no idea when the next major hurricane will land, but for now Florida is extremely popular.
If you are a homeowner in Florida, you are in demand as a spouse.
Georgia Being both their respective state's capitals and primary business centers, Boston, Massachusetts and Atlanta, Georgia dominate their states. The difference is that the cost of living is very reasonable in Atlanta. I love the Atlanta metro region. It has organic diversity, not bolted on diversity.
Texas The cost of living is very reasonable compared to incomes.
I routinely read about people who have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars from online scams.
Instead of giving hundreds of thousands of dollars to an online scammer, hundreds of thousands of dollars would make an excellent down payment for a home in any of the above states.
No offense intended for any location not listed.
There are a lot places in the southeast that are not merely really nice but outright magnificent.
I would be far from disappointed to wake up in some alternate reality where I found myself living in Oxford, Mississippi or Cary, North Carolina.
Hawaii I was considering adding Hawaii to the core regions that I would recruit from, but Hawaii has the concept of leasehold property.
With leasehold property a couple might own a condominium but there is a lease for a finite number of years from the party that owns the land.
At the end of the lease, the people that bought the condominiums would then own nothing.
That raises the chance of my matching a couple, then they are homeless at the end of the lease.
Let's say that you are an unmarried homeower who lives in one of the following places in Massachusetts:
Brookline
Lexington
Newton
Wellesley
I would especially love to have you as a client, because that would drive a lot of traffic to my website.